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My site is beginning to grow on me. I’ll have good days when people will recognize me and approach me in conversation, and then bad days when I don’t get hellos back. People definitely are not used to seeing Black people, ever. Most times they don’t think I’m American; I’m either from Livingston (a small city in eastern Guatemala where the only Blacks in the country live), Cuban because there are Cuban doctors who work at the Puesto de Salud (health center) in my town, Brazilian I don’t know why, and finally African. The good thing is that I don’t get treated badly because I’m Black, instead I’m more of a rarity. People are more curious towards me rather than hateful. Strangers will call me Morena (brown skinned), or I’ll just get the straight up Negrita both terms used with huge smiles on people’s faces. It seems to be just part of the culture down here. In the states it wouldn’t be okay if someone called out to me, ¨hey brown-skinned girl, ¨ or ¨hey little black girl,¨ but here it’s a term of endearment, just like they call fat people gordo or gorda right to their faces. Cultural differences are interesting aren’t they? I do have a funny story though. So I’ve actually made good friends with the owners of a Comedor in my town. My CTA introduced me to them my first day in site, Doña Fina and Don Esau husband and wife. They are very friendly and the food is delicious- needless to say I go there often. They live in another town not too far from my site where another volunteer also lives. So this past Sunday, I went there and had lunch at their house with the other volunteer. We had white rice and vegetables that were AMAZING, met the rest of the family, saw pictures of their trip to the Mayan ruins in Tikal, and pictures of their two children who are working Los Angeles (there are so many Guatemalan immigrants in Los Angeles that to them the United States is Los Angeles- no other city exists). So we were all chatting and Doña Fina randomly brings up Trenzas (braids), and asks if I could braid her 6 ear old daughter’s hair. I just about died! The topic changed and I thought I had gotten out of it, but when I said I was about to leave, she asked me again and whipped out hair ties, a comb, and baby oil. So I braided the girls hair, it was the least I could do after she gave me a delicious free meal. So even though they never see or interact with Black people they know that we can braid hair- I wonder if that’s what people in my town think when they see me: Ooo there goes the Morena, I wonder if she can do Trenzas? Next time I’m over Doña Fina´s house maybe I’ll give her a little cultural lesson, open up her mind a little.
During training, there are two very important days one week apart. One is site assignment day, where the volunteers receive their two year locations, and the other is counterpart day, where a person with whom you’ll be working and who is from your site comes to meet you, have a mini orientation, and then take you to your site for a first time visit. These counterparts are hit or miss. Some volunteers, like myself, are lucky and get hard working dedicated people who are excited about your work and eager to help you settle into your site, and others get stuck with counterparts who don’t make themselves available, and instead of formally introducing them to their sites, leave the volunteers slightly alone and with no other connections. All Healthy Schools volunteers receive a CTA (Coordinador Tecnica Administrativa) as their counterpart. The CTA monitors the directors (principles) and teachers of all schools located within a certain area, for example my CTA Juliana is in charge of 33 schools. The job is near impossible. With 33 schools she barely sees them all once a month, and if you really want to monitor something you need to show your face more than once a month. Juliana was a great counterpart, she took me to all my schools and explained my project correctly, she introduced me to a family to live with for the first three months in site (this is what a volunteer really needs from their counterpart otherwise they become this stranger with no legitimizing connection walking around asking people if they can live with them), and finally introduced me to the owner of a comedor (eatery) so that I have something to eat. She also arranged dates for me to meet the Padres and Madres de Familia (parents committees) of each of my three schools, and dates to meet the Alcalde (mayor) and COCODES (community groups) of my town. She put me off to a good start.